The Javanese wedding are unique rather than other culture. It is because Javanese wedding are wonderful and mystical sound of Javanese music gamelan instruments which is Panggih or Temu - meeting. In Javanese wedding, the bride will be make up traditionally with special gelungan ( hairdo), wearing shining brilliant and golden jewelries and special dress. The groom also have to wears special dress.
In the ceremony, the bridegroom have to appear in their best as like they are treated and honored by those who present in that wedding. they should be as King and Queen on that day. As traditional rules, the happy party should be takes place in the of bride`s parents. The bride`s parents are the ones who will organize the wedding ceremony. The gate of house must be decorated with tarub which will consist of different Tuwuhan - plants and leaves.
A complete Javanese wedding ceremony has several complicated traditional rituals. In that event, role of pemaes, a traditional make up woman who should lead the complete set of the whole ceremonies is very important. There have many ritual that the bridegroom need to complete in their wedding. Some of them is Wiji Dadi which the bridegroom need to a crash chicken egg with his right foot, then, washed by the bride using water mixed with several kinds of flowers. It symbolize that the bridegroom is ready to become a responsible father and the bride should be faithfully serve her husband.
Then, the ritual is Kacar Kucur or tampa kaya. It is about of the couple need to walk with holding each other with their little finger to the site of Kacar Kucur in a chair in front of the house`s Krobongan. It symbolize that the husband should give all of his income to his wife. After that, the ritual of Sungkeman. This ritual, the couple should kneel and asks a blessing from their parents. During the Sungkeman, the Pemaes takes out the keris from the bridegroom. There have many rituals that Javanese people do on their wedding, but in this site I just only state randomly.
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